Add some fire energy to boost the energy of relationships
The fire element supports the element earth, in the cycle of elements. Therefore, an addition of a small amount of red to this area e.g. a pair of red roses or two red candles for instance, would enhance this energy. This is why we see so much of the colour red being used in Valentines day Decorations
Fragrant Chi to enhance relationships harmony
Scent is of course, deeply personal. We are each drawn to particular scents based on our memories and associations with particular scents. Add some Fragrant chi to the area of your home associated with relationships harmony by dispersing some pure essential oils to enhance this energy of nurturing relationships and romance.
Here are some examples of oils which support calm serenity and loving nurturing energy:-
Neroli (citrus aurantium var amara)
A beautiful flower oil with a warm rich, orange-like aroma, it is seems to vaccilate between sweet and sour notes. It has a wonderful calming effect on the heart and mind being both uplifting and grounding all at once. This oil is said to facilitate the release of stress and anxiety and open us up to joy and hope.
Rose (rosa damascena)
This rich floral essential oil is called the “queen of flowers” and is a “gentle tonic for the heart” according to Gabriel Mojay (Aromatherapy for healing the spirit). Rose oil “calms and supports the heart helping to nourish our sense of well-being” It is said to heal emotional wounds and strengthen our capacity for self love and restoring our trust in opening up to receiving love from others.
Marjoram (origanum majorana)
This wonderful oil is fresh and herbaceous, sweet, warm and slightly woody in scent. Marjoram is nourishing and balancing and comforting. It is said to promote our ability for self-nurturing. A herb of love it nourishes and restores our ability to give and receive love. Gabriel Mojay describes it as “A distillation of Mother Earths compassion” showing us “the joy of the mountains”.